In the world of weddings, the question of who pays for what can often lead to some heated discussions. Take, for instance, this recent story: A bride asked her bridesmaids to pay $250 (about $365 AUD) for their dresses, and it's caused quite the commotion.

Initially, the bride had mentioned that her bridesmaids would be paying for their own dresses. This didn't seem to be a problem until the price was revealed, sparking a debate among them. The story, which the bride shared online, has since gathered a mix of opinions.

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Many sympathize with the bridesmaids in the comments, feeling that $250 is a bit over the top. There's a suggestion that if a bride picks a specific dress, maybe she should cover the cost. Alternatively, giving the bridesmaids the choice to pick their own dresses within a specified color and length could be a more budget-friendly route.

On the other hand, there are those who think the bridesmaids should just accept the cost. After all, paying for one's own bridesmaid dress isn't unheard of. Some bridesmaids have even shared stories of paying more for dresses in other weddings.

This situation brings us to an essential question: Who should really pay for the bridesmaid dresses? It's a topic we've explored in depth in our article “Who Pays for the Bridesmaid Dresses?” which has some helpful perspectives and tips.

Every wedding is unique, and so are the financial decisions that come with it. Whether the bridesmaids pay for their dresses or the bride covers the cost, it's all about finding a balance that works for everyone involved.”